Comments on: From Pain to Sane During The Holidays http://parentalalienationhurts.com/2009/11/from-pain-to-sane-during-the-holidays/ Parental Alienation Hurts. Official Blogs, Links, and Resources Mon, 09 Aug 2010 20:34:18 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: OKC Stepmom http://parentalalienationhurts.com/2009/11/from-pain-to-sane-during-the-holidays/comment-page-1/#comment-1662 OKC Stepmom Tue, 22 Dec 2009 21:03:46 +0000 http://parentalalienationhurts.com/?p=338#comment-1662 I have to say this is the most painful feeling in the world when you see your spouse not being able to spend the holidays with his child. This has been going on for 2 years now. The BM moved out of state and will not tell my dh where she is. She blames me and uses me as an excuse on all the time, She will even go to the extreme of lying and accusing me of sexual child abuse. I hate this state of Oklahoma, I hate our judge that we have on our legal case. Hes so blind to the fact that this isn't healthy for our "blended family" . Honestly I really don't care if she treats me like this. Its nothing new and i'm used to it. I just wish my dh could spend the holidays with his child. I have to say this is the most painful feeling in the world when you see your spouse not being able to spend the holidays with his child. This has been going on for 2 years now. The BM moved out of state and will not tell my dh where she is. She blames me and uses me as an excuse on all the time, She will even go to the extreme of lying and accusing me of sexual child abuse.

I hate this state of Oklahoma, I hate our judge that we have on our legal case. Hes so blind to the fact that this isn’t healthy for our “blended family” . Honestly I really don’t care if she treats me like this. Its nothing new and i’m used to it. I just wish my dh could spend the holidays with his child.

]]> By: Lesley http://parentalalienationhurts.com/2009/11/from-pain-to-sane-during-the-holidays/comment-page-1/#comment-1658 Lesley Thu, 17 Dec 2009 16:09:59 +0000 http://parentalalienationhurts.com/?p=338#comment-1658 If I may I'd just like to say (and this could be just my personal foible) I found it just too painful to spend Christmas with friends - or even helping to serve meals in a shelter. Selfish as that sounds, going home afterwards to nobody was so sad - I felt worse. That's why I ended up never taking Christmas Holidays at work. I really needed my family and if I had my time over I would buy a ticket and fly there to where my brothers and sister live instead of staying around this town thinking about my children having Christmas together with their father. I spent many Christmases just asleep, in bed with the blinds drawn - because nothing helped the pain. If I may I’d just like to say (and this could be just my personal foible) I found it just too painful to spend Christmas with friends – or even helping to serve meals in a shelter. Selfish as that sounds, going home afterwards to nobody was so sad – I felt worse. That’s why I ended up never taking Christmas Holidays at work.

I really needed my family and if I had my time over I would buy a ticket and fly there to where my brothers and sister live instead of staying around this town thinking about my children having Christmas together with their father. I spent many Christmases just asleep, in bed with the blinds drawn – because nothing helped the pain.

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