Comments on: Shattered Illusions

By: Barbbie

Barbbie — Thu, 21 Jan 2010 18:51:36 +0000

your website is amazing and since I have discovered PAS has been the demise of my relationship with my children I long for wonderful encouraging articles such as this. THANK YOU!

By: chrissy

chrissy — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 20:45:10 +0000

Gary, Thank you for your most recent comment. I in no way expect for readers to believe that this the “norm”. The story is my own I decided to expose my story as an adult because it shows generational dysfunction. I myself lived through alienation as a child and understand the difficult situation a child is placed in. Their is life long effects for all involved in these delicate situations. I support fit parents and have no gender bias intentions in my work. If you have read my blogs in full you will see that my stance is one stays postitve and gender neutral.

An angel is the child that survives this ordeal without long lasting trauma. Abuse is happens in many ways and to both genders. I’m sorry for your recent abuse and can understand your feelings.

By: Brigitte Wangberg

Brigitte Wangberg — Thu, 14 Jan 2010 20:21:16 +0000

Great info and love your website. Thank you for sharing your story and for all you do for so many individuals and families.

Best,
Brigitte

By: Gary Bond

Gary Bond — Mon, 04 Jan 2010 23:04:37 +0000

I here stories of abuse from both sexes. In reality the honeymoon only lasts one or two years at the most. Raising children in today’s world takes people with real guts. When you look at the overall situation true abusers as painted by yourself is only a small percentage of the married population. However, you want tens of millions of people to believe your story is the norm. A larger problem suffered by married couples is the aggression experienced by the marriage when a woman
goes through menopause. Not only is a husband subject to a wife’s menopausal aggression but so are the children. If you want to look at a family individual
that exposes the entire family to aggression and abuse then look at mother.
This natural transformation can last a decade or more and can start at 30.
An angel is the husband that will take the abuse that his wife will dish out
over the years of the pre-menopause and menopause years. The children are far less fortunate since they do not understand why mother is so abusive.